Vanishing relations

Eternal; Selfless -when all these "used to" be the definition of Love because now exists an Amazing FundaJin new generation “Love breakup and zindagi".Well I am quite confused with this new generation theory.Sometimes I really wonder am I real a fit into this so called new generation?The blood relations Mother-Daughter; Sister-Brother;Son-Father;Boy Friend-Girl friend;Husband-Wife  has started vanishing.Full stop to the relations treasured for years !!!!!

It’s really ridiculous to see how people change with time and they starts to bury the relationship which they called it love long back. We can make someone easily feel worthless at the same time we can’t take the risk of breaking our hearts as well. Too many breaks ups.Funny isn't it??Human changes from time to time and say they are moving away ….Just Wondering do “True Selfless Love” really exist??or is it Merely "Love for convenience"??

We get busy in too many things in our life and simply walk away from the relationship which we had, hoping never to see them in life… again."And  WELCOME to the reality where Life is a race&  man is ultimately turning into a machine JJ".

Years later we come across many people whom we never wanted to meet in life. A point in life where you feel we have achieved everything and still can’t make eye contacts to them. Broken hearts again and Still finding answers,reasons to console your Inner consensus??So do we really need to lose them??Do we need to burden ourselves with relationship by breaking hearts??So let’s atleast make an effort reduce the backages towards the end of life.JJ

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The beautiful lyrics of the song " I Dreamed a Dream"  seemed to be very perfect match when I was writing this. Beautiful Lyrics and wonderful performance by Anne Hathman!!!!What a wonderful movie & Powerful song...... touching and simply amazing.

                                                      
                                                       That’s when she Cried I Cried L L L

 There was a time when men were kind
When their voices were soft
And their words inviting
There was a time when love was blind
And the world was a song
And the song was exciting
There was a time
Then it all went wrong

I dreamed a dream in times gone by
When hope was high
And life worth living
I dreamed that love would never die
I dreamed that God would be forgiving
Then I was young and unafraid
And dreams were made and used and wasted
There was no ransom to be paid
No song unsung

No wine untasted

 But the tigers come at night
With their voices soft as thunder
As they tear your hope apart
And they turn your dream to shame

He slept a summer by my side
He filled my days with endless wonder
He took my childhood in his stride
But he was gone when autumn came

And still I dream he'll come to me
That we'll live the years together
But there are dreams that cannot be
And there are storms we cannot weather
I had a dream my life would be
So different from this hell I'm living
So different now from what it seemed
Now life has killed the dream I dreamed

Couldn't have described love in a better way..........

Doogly Woogly-Part 1

How we showered our Care & Love towards the New Add-On to the family??

One day on August 14, 2001 around 3.30 PM after returning from my school I saw a small cutie in front of my home .His Black eyes sparkled with Innocence, Long Sharp-Ears but pointing downwards, Gentle and Gooey walk with Tiny paws, Softest Body- Fur color a mix of Light black -Brown  and fat around his neck,. And I realized it’s a Puppy in my home. He started barking with his low voice at me…Hopelessly.

 I went very close to him -spoke to him softly- touched him gently he started wagging his tail million times and started licking me J.That’s the first time he showed his love towards me !!!!

Next moment I raised Tons of questions to my Dad Who was patting the puppy - what’s happening? Is this doggy for us? Where are we going to make him stay??So many questions. But he bothered to hear only one  from those many questions-“”Oh yes-ur mummy doesn’t like Dogs”””….Now comes the thrilling part in it ((Yudh Bhoomi rachne khi saari sambhavana –Feel of a war Inside the home)).By then It was already 5.30 PM and it was time for my mom to return from the office & the worst thing she was bitten by a dog long back and she hates dogs.The moment she entered our home Puppy started barking at her.((Usko kya patha khi yeh ghar khi Maalkin hey J)).Getting a dog in her home was not there even in her rarest dreams. She screamed at us to take it away from home. And like any other day we started giving her false promises - will feed it, will take it for walk, will help him get a proper training, taking him for Loo and much more. We kept our promises for two days and back the busy days started again. And we realized puppies are a lot of work –It’s not only playing with them, not only feeding them- It is beyond that.

His Eyes Sparkled with Innocence

Eager to know what happened next??

Failing to fulfill our promise –Mom took her role as Caretaker rather caregiver; the truth is she plays her role best in that. Her New role as a Pet Parent. And then was the naming Ceremony-She didn't asked us –she called him APPU. We provided him a very big new Home ((with extra facilities in the cage)), separate utensils for his food-snacks-Milk-WaterJ;Puppy shots((Ante Rabies and Boosters)) for extra protection. 

Dada brought the chew Bones which APPU awaits when he comes from office. He never used to like the popular Dog brand foods instead he competes with the cutlet, sandwiches,Icecream ,Payasam,chocolates and specially the Bourbon biscuits   which we used to have. A main competitor for us in all ways.

Its His favorite Chew Bones

Mummy's most favorite ((Mammas Dulhara-he became just in days))!!!Yes, Jealous we were.APPU never felt ashamed when we scolded him but mummy’s one word is his world. 

By this time he started playing with us - annoying us and taking our badminton cork running away with it to divert our attention towards him Sleeping and Peeing on Mummy’s favorite Table Roses, Jumping high to get his playing ball, sometimes digging and storing his favorite meat underground, Rolling on Ground,taking our sandals and running around the home,biting the tap expecting water to come &&  many more acts like small innocent kids. He easily recognize the sound of dads vehicle from kilometers and wags his tails before daddy’s arrivals………That is his love and respect for him. APPU  is handsome & hence he always Judges a person by his looks-If someone comes well-dressed he always gives a second thought on to bark or not ((Of course about which we were little concerned)). 

After his shower 

Oh yes its snacks time

APPU can’t speak and he definitely needs someone to take care of him .But he asks, shows, feels, recognizes everything like us. He looks at us, Guards and protects us expecting nothing in return unlike Humans. He has a major role in the household just as we have. He has lived with us played many important roles and still continuing like a valiant ,Sincere,Honest guard for the past 10 years .No wonder they are known by Unique Nick name “Man’s Best Friend”.

Quoting the lines of Sir John Davies, in his epigram In Cineam (written in 1594), observed:

Thou sayest thou art as weary as a dog,
As angry, sick, and hungry as a dog,
As dull and melancholy as a dog,
As lazy, sleepy, idle as a dog.
But why dost thou compare thee to a dog?
In that for which all men despise a dog,
I will compare thee better to a dog.
Thou art as fair and comely as a dog,
Thou art as true and honest as a dog,
Thou art as kind and liberal as a dog,Thou art as wise and valiant as a dog."

A very few can understand what is in it…..For those Few who have lived with dogs who has understood what friendship ,trust ,care ,Love ,Compassion, Patience and Honesty is.And how to love unconditionally .............

Travel Pack

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In pursuit of happiness

Here for Travel Bugs who are in pursuit of happiness .
If you love travelling you already knows it and if you don't here is a wonderful article presenting the facts how and why can travel keep us happy?

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Mind Reading

Some times I wish I should have Joined the Human Psychology , Behavioral classes or mind reading  to understand how people are.Are they really the real them when they are with us???Sounds complicated .....ahhh???

A point at which your life gets completely struck….to choose((rather Identify )) among the people who are really true, honest & Unselfish . This is when I wish I could read the mind of people ((Knowing it would be a complete invasion of privacy)) instead of Getting into Heated arguments, debates, conversations and false assumptions which wouldn't be always necessary.

Haha I know its impractical JJJ .Sometimes I feel its really important.....<<Keeping apart the impracticality>> I can always dream about it. What say???

Being Independent & Lessons Learned

I have been a regular visitor to chennai since 2007 but the travel has always been fairly easy & comfortable in cars .And I always used to love the busy and alive city for no reason.There was something new- whether it is road side shopping of T-Nagar or whole sale market hub sowcarpet or the crowded marina beach.But everything was easy and accessible because of the people around me.

Hence to add a little spice to my life I decided to come out from the comfort zone and decided to roam around and see places.The first time to travel in an MTC bus from Nungambakkam to Anna nagar and back to velachery ((Hub of IT Indusries)).

The total seat capacity in an MTC bus  is 25 ; 48 standees plus  a driver & conductor.And to my surprise I traveled during the peak hour & here is a look  at the bus 

Still the bus stops in many places and I wonder where to get in ???Inclusive of those hanging outside the bus has definitely crossed the standards 

And here are few lessons that I learned from my Travel

Lessons 1 -Never travel in an MTC at least during the peak hours when you have better options like share autos and especially when you have to reach on time in Office 

Lesson 2 - Ladies,always hold one hand to the rail but definitely the other on your handbag because you never know when/who/how will pick pocket your bag.

Lesson 3 -Always come and stand in front of the door at-least 3 stops ahead to get down otherwise you might get Jam packed inside the crowd.

Lesson 4- Be prepared to run in any direction to get into the bus  because the bus never stops at a proper bus stop .

Freaked out-An incomplete post

Some days are good, some  are bad, some are just rejuvenating and exciting while some days just goes off like that. Everyday morning I look into the mirror and give myself a big smile –sometimes even those smiles speaks different languages to me: the unwillingness to smile, the forced smile and the natural smile. It’s absolutely wonderful to see how our mind works and the way we react to same things on different days. Yes I am talking about the different mood swings in my life. Strange nah???? Same situations-Different reactions-Different emotions-Different moods. Looking back on few things Sometimes I feel funny about myself & how strangely I react to the lightest situations

I came to a new city for my Job leaving behind everything I had only very few caring and dear people around me. It’s strange you start sharing and building an emotional bond with someone whom you really trust and they suddenly leaves nothing except a void space. Life changes when you blink and open your eyes. By the time I got adjusted to the new life & changed myself for a good cause I reached the other corner of the world with so many people around me but -unknown faces.

 And those moments when you realize that you are so much dependent & alone……whoosh!!!!!! Those feelings are really sulky. You start thinking that Life would have been much easier when nobody bothers about your existence and you start living an independent life just perfectly happy with the way how it works.

I am kind off getting a feel that most of my posts are becoming completely weird & absurd.But I had to vent it out.But Kiddos to me!!!! I never realized I could write so many things. 

Oh lalala lalaa :-)